Wednesday, June 20, 2012

i don't need a reason to love a person

 Love is primordial and it is an unmistakable beauty of a human emotion. But everything has a limit, when the limit point is exceeded, love is no longer love, it becomes more like over possessive, jealousy or even " i-love-you-so-much-that-i-hate-you" (?). It's easy to love a person, but maintaining the love in a relationship is definitely not a cinch. We were born with imperfections, we have emotions, we have weakness. We tend to get emotional sometimes and negative thoughts or feelings could fester in our mind. But we were born with a power, the power to control our negative sides, either emotions or thoughts. I think, falling in love is a learning process, we learn to use the "power" by "practicing" to compensate, to forgive one's mistake and learn from the mistake. The most important thing is we learn that no one is perfect and it's essential to forgive one's imperfection in a relationship.
I don't need a reason to love you. It's impossible for me to describe the feeling of love, so do explaining the reason why i fall in love. But i love you that i'm willing to be involved in the learning process. I'm not perfect and that's why i do not/should not expect you to be perfect. I can't be perfect for you, but i can be the best for you. :)

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